Ignoring ourselves is very easy. We can do the same at ease But have you thought about finding ourselves, then that is quite a difficult task for you to work upon. Life is simple, f you want to make it. If you want to make it like a cobweb it will not take a second to deliver the same to you. But if you want to live a happy life with your loved ones, then never ignore yourself. Let’s talk about some of the consequences that can occur if you ignore yourself and what you should do to help yourself so that there is no such incidence with you:
You must be favorite of yours. People who do not love themselves cannot give love to others too. You can take the example of a tree how he becomes fruitful, give shade to others, helps vine to creep around it, give fresh air and allow the squirrels and birds to build their nest around but all this is only possible if the tree is nurtured well. And if he doesn’t get his nourishment he will perish one day. He requires his part of sunlight, water, good soil, the place to spread his roots and if he got it right, he can flourish an ecosystem. So, before the fulfillment of others expectation, you need to fulfill yours. So, listen to your inner voice and love yourself.
There are lots of people who keep on looking for happiness in their neighborhoods. But they never inquire that the real happiness lies within them only. You just need to look within yourself so that you know what is missing from your life. Do look for your inner peace by taking care of yourself. Otherwise, you will not know when you grew apart from yourself. The symptoms can be irritation, losing patience, not finding peace in your work etc.
Introspection of yourself is a must nowadays. As we are so much busy in our lives, that we start on Monday morning and ends on Friday evening. We do not spend any time with ourselves and here is when we start ignoring ourselves. Do think about the time you have spent. What all mistakes you have done how you can not repeat them in your future. Plan your milestones, make small goals and look forward to achieving them. Take time what makes you happy, and what make you realize who you are.
Never ignore yourselves, it is an automatic call that we should listen and answer automatically!